My MindSpace Puzzles :-)

Is it so difficult to blog? J Infact, if you ask me the reason of blogging, I feel its just a way of expression of my thoughts. Well, I always wish my mind has a keyboard and word file where it keeps typing all the things which I see and form an opinion about. At times, when you are walking down the street, you tend to observe so many things – wish I could immediately put down in words and send it to my lappy

To go back and read your own stuff, is hilarious, eye-opener in the sense that you have grown mature now and maybe enlightening for others too hehehe

Well, check out some interesting stuff below:

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Bidding Adieu and Partying was the theme yesterday with mixed feelings of joy on the part of people who were leaving and starting a new role in a new organization. But sorrow and ‘judai’ feeling for those who had a close working relationship with them. Ramee Guestline Restaurant in Attibele gave us some good memories to be cherished where we went berserk on the photo shoot in the beautiful ambience and food was really yummy.

When boss had left, some of us stayed back and chakpak chakpak we became naughty and jabbed so many humorous jokes There was this chess board made on the floor where we had some big photo shoot done but thapp the battery went dead in the camera. Guess some pics were taken successfully and waiting for it from Shilpsss. On way back, our discussion rotated around automatic gear system in cars – Santro Zing and I chuckled that wish I had picked up one as now my attention diverts on changing gears rather than focusing on any handsome guy who might be crossing by in the neighbouring car hehehehe…

Don’t know what happened to me yesterday? I was in full mood after long long time and shed off my skin of ‘goody good at workplace’

Below is a specimen of our Chakpak Chakpak models J

Thank God Its Friday – was the rhyming dialogue for Anziii, Shilpsss and Deepsss We set out for a movie in PVR but the kind of movies which were running made us take our step back and there we sat in Food Court sipping Hot Manchow Soup and pondering what next to do…these girls wanted to go to Athena but i was not interested in all the show-shaa and artificial surroundings…

So what next, what next…suddenly we all three had a similar idea – of having a fabulous coffee with a long drive..and we hit off in Anzii’s Zingggg to Ramanagar Coffee Day To top it all, we all three did not know the way to reach there and hahaha Shilpsss zooming us through some inner roads of Bangs and guiding our way through “just keep going straight” roads

Ah! How can i forget to mention the sexy jeep which was lying in the PVR parking area We all 3 babes hopped on for a clicK, click, click … and while we were happily clicking our pics, the owners came and they were like !!!

The ongoing journey was awesome filled with all suspense and horror kind of roads and we 3 daring girls enjoying our way through it “just for a coffee” :-) Finally we reached and wowww – the ambience was awesome. Peaceful surroundings and beautiful lights in cofee day greeted us.

Our great, Shilps, did some video recording of both of us talking some stupid thing about Shaadi.com…you must listen to this..hahahhaaa

Am sure when we would see this after some years of our marriage, we would have a hearty laugh…

Cheers to us threesome

Hi Friends,

Am back with a renewed zeal for life after my visit to UK. But its an irony that am writing my fresh blog page with a description of a different country, culture and people – all of such elements with which I have fallen in love with…who kehte hain naa “nahin lagta dil mera, tere bina, hayyessss, nahin lagta dil mera bharat mein”

Usually am a very lazy person to go anywhere coz I think who will get ready n then come back home all tired…but this time, it was as if God forced me to go out of the country and explore a better version of life – away from any emotions, attachment, loneliness…surprising it was, as I roamed “all alone” in London but never felt lonely J this is the beauty of this place

Took British Airways flight to get a flavour of “being british” and landed on Heathrow airport…wowwwwwww…was awestruck with the perfect systems in airport ! must say, first time in my life, I had a hassle-free or must say obstacle-free trip… immigration officer was asking loads of questions to all the passengers but mine was over within 2 mins with a big big smile J J J How can I forget the visa submission time, where things were so smooth that got the visa within 4 days…can you beat that?

I come out of the airport and here I am in HEAVEN…driving car is so much fun. I did drive my brother’s Volkswagon Passat car – the contentment of being disciplined and receiving smiles from those for whom you wait and let go when they are coming from your right…hhmmm…when is India going to become like this? Why can’t we ape the right things from west?? Clean roads, systematic life, courteous behaviour, tube trains, clean environment J

This video gives the perfect feel of “my London”

Have you ever felt cold feet at the very word “marriage”?

This was the topic of discussion in Oprah’s show last Sunday…  Many of us bachelors and spinsters would have felt this strange feeling the moment our parents discuss about marriage…what are we afraid of? Is it the guy or girl we are getting married to, is it the freedom which will be lost, is it the insecurity of our marriage and relationship?

Someone said marriage is a conspiracy…the advanced women said that what keeps you up at night is the loss of your identity…why is that so? Then such marriages can only be termed as compromise to your present situations…if such a marriage or relationship develops cold feet and the fear doesn’t evaporate, then such an alliance cannot go for long!! It will just become a blame game… 

Marriage is a bundle of sacrifices and mutual growth…and don’t dare to enter into such a holy alliance unless you are prepared for it…unless you are sure that your partner will help you grow into a beautiful person…no friendship or relationships can sustain for long just on the basis of attraction…there needs to be more than that…all such partnerships evolve with time and what might attract you in the initial phase of the alliance might not continue to attract when the relationship grows a bit old…its only when two partners revive the fire and kindle the flames of love and maturity in dealing with each other…its like a flower bud which needs sunshine and water…so as a marriage… 

From the start, cultivate a very open and approachable relationship by always being there for each other. Confide every trivial thing in each other; share both the joys and the anxieties. So instead of falling out of love, owing to the proximity of others and the probable distance between u, you can still manage to return home to each other; the emotional connectivity bridging the gap.  

Make time to do things together, play scrabble, watch television, share a chore and relax reading very different books. You might have very different temperaments too — She might be fiery and impatient, he’s cool and composed. you talk too much, he mostly listens. Luckily, the negatives do seem to cancel out.   Togetherness comes with some great perks — you now have someone to share the responsibilities and daily chores too! That will ease your load and give you more time together. Small things like making up the bed, washing the filter, taking out the garbage or doing the vacuuming together can all add up to a lot. And the romance must continue. There should be time for dining out, holding hands, watching movies together and more.  However, while we make time for togetherness, we also need time alone, to collect our thoughts, listen to music, play with our pets, meet friends, basically do our own thing.

We need to respect our boundaries and give each other breathing space.   Besides this, we all come with excess baggage, those skeletons in the closet, a past! Honesty and truth should be the backbone of your new life together.  When you go through a little turmoil, past episodes best forgotten come back in the open and old wounds are reopened. Don’t do that. Don’t let cobwebs of yesterday haunt you. The fact that you are still with your spouse/partner affirms the importance of his/her presence.   The past is irrelevant. So move on and embrace today. 

Try to remain the ‘hot and sexy’ partner for each other, even 15 years down the line of marriage and kiss each other with the same passion when you were in courtship before marrying

Yes, was listening to this song and felt like implementing the same in my life

Lemme ponder what motivated me to go to this song and follow the footsteps of the lyrics…hhmmm…well, I want to break-free of all the chains which are holding me back to be a free bird…as free as I wanna be! Why do you think such chains are imposed on any human?? Is it so that the person does not make any grave mistakes?? Or is it a lame excuse for protecting the person from getting hurt?? 

Why can’t a person be given a free reign to lead his/her life?? Does any moral policing have any effect or it suppresses the motivation level of the human?? I feel that every human should be given enough of freedom to lead his/her own life and get going…what are we so afraid of? Unless you take risks or experiment life, you will never grow up and will be always in that social arena of “Not good” or “Not acceptable” norms. 

What is it that parents always save the child from? Why do they always think that the child is not aware of any ills in the society and he/she cannot be safe from the dangers? What are we afraid of?  

Infact are we not aware that our next generation is smarter, more mentally equipped to learn and implement the better things in life. Mind it, am not against the parental guidance but again it should be used in a mature manner rather than imposing your thoughts on your child and restricting his/her way of leading life. And such thing applies to a society as well at a macro level.  

Always, trust the human as he is quite mature after reaching a certain age and let him tumble, roll and climb the struggles and create a niche for himself/herself. Struggle, struggle, struggle and you will shine as bright as gold 

This might sound a usual blog to the readers but unless you understand what I am referring to, you will not be able to relate to me. Well, each one of us have loads of dreams or so to say some ideas which we all wish we could try atleast once. Don’t you think so?? An idea or ideas? What can that be? 

Ok, lemme first tell you what my ideas and dreams are. I have always thought of trying something new atleast once, maybe I might sound weird but I wanna try all kinds of profession on this earth in this lifetime like air-hostess, song lyrics writer, singer, dancer, comedian, magician!! Yeah magician where I could create some magic in my own life and transform it so that I could live this life more beautifully as ever  I am sure everyone would then wish to run to me with your own dreams!! Don’t forget to book your appointments well in time ;) 

So what are my other trials which I wanna indulge in?? Hhmmm…there is a saying that unless you put your hand into something, you will never understand what it could be. So recently, I engaged myself in an elegant sport – GOLF.

As amazing as it sounds, the experience also said it all. I consider myself a beginner and I never knew the terminologies of it in the first place, like what is a club, a basket, concept of holes, ofcourse the gender differentiation in a club!!! Yes, you would be surprised by gender difference!!! When we went to rent a club, the owner asked me if I was a beginner. I replied yes this is the first time and he twisted his lips a bit. I questioned him why is there anything? He said that you need to be careful and please don’t break the club’s hood (this is my terminology – the thing which helps to kick the ball). And he said that for females we give a lighter version of a club as they can’t handle it. What a sad gender differentiation  :( 

Anyways, I tried all my best possible shots with first few shots which were more of a timid kind and then the Coach explained to me the art of swinging the club and the distance to which you should throw the ball but in a straight direction. I happily started kicking all the 50balls which comes in a basket and there I went materializing my dream of atleast trying an elegant sport in my lifetime J The immense satisfaction I achieved on this day was mind blowing and atleast a bit of thirst of mine is quenched to some extent, thanks to all the friends of mine who helped me experiment life

Now when I look back on the weekends I wasted, I get more motivated to experiment and risk some part of my peace and time in following my dreams to quench the unknowing and unquenchable thirst.  

But lemme tell you, I thanked the owner to have alerted me on the gender differentiation as I became more careful and kept his words in mind while using the club. So, each word said might influence or guide you at some point. Do keep this in mind and take plenty of risks to relish this beautiful life :-) 

And yesterday I had an amazing and relaxed sleep :) 

So what is the next agenda on my risk-dreams?? Hhmmm… in days to come, you will know very soon

Very good piece on de-hiring employees by Dale Dauten

Funniest matrimonial interest I received   

Message from ABCZ

i m simple person, Age & religion is not matter. but if u r accept me. then batter for us. so pl i don’t force u about religion. I write here my right age But I look very much young. I care my health and my personality. if u want right man for life so pl consider about me and meet me face to face then i think after meet me u r accept. I think u r right for me. I m kaku. 

IF U WANT MORE ABOUT MY SELF.PL ASK ME. I M SIMPAL PARSON.I DONT NEED MONEY.GOD GIVE ME EVERY THING. HONEY IF U WANT U TALK TO ME BY CHAT.MY MAIL ID U NOTE IT.dhaw…@hotmail.com or kb…@yahoo.co.in  IF U WANT THEN SEND ME UR CONTACT NO; I CALL U .MY CONTACT NO;098100….. OR 09312…. Thanks if u accept me, but one problem I live in Delhi, if u want u come here and stay with me here.

(BUT IF U WANT I LIVE THERE WITH U AS A GHAR JAWAI,NO PROBLEM FOR ME COZ I DONT WANT LIVE IN HERE IN THE SAME HOUSE.IF U WANT WE R LIVE ANY WHERE IN THIS EARTH BUT I DON’T WANT LIVE IN THAT HOME,COZ MY PAST ALWAYS SHADHOW IN MY LIFE OR IN MY MIND.SO IF U LIKE I LIVE THERE WITH U). 

I m honest man. I hate cheater and liar. Really if u come in my life I give u lot of bright future and I give u every thing. but faith is must, only u give ur hand in my in my hand, I give u lot of love. so pl reply me, what u want and what u thinking about ur future and our future. 

IF U SEND ME UR MAIL-ID THEN I SEND U MY SOME PIC.I HOPE U LIKE IT.AND IF U HAVE PIC PL SEND ME IN MY MAIL-ID.I M WAITING UR REPLY.MY ENGLISH IS NOT GOOD,PL TRY TO UNDERSTAND,I M WRITE HERE MY SELF,I DON’T NEED HELP FOR GOOD ENGLISH.COZ I FAITH MY SELF. TAKE CARE ON UR SELF,WHEN U COME IN MY LIFE THEN I CARE U WHOLE LIFE & SEE UR BRIGHT FUTURE.

FAITH IS MUST.IF U FAITH ME THEN REPLY ME.IF U R NOT FAITH ME PL REJECT ME.I DONT MIND.COZ I BELIVE IN GOD, AND GOD GIVE ME ALLWAYS RIGHT WAY.SO FAITH ME.MY OWN BUSSINESS. MANF/TRADING FOR COLOUR TV&DVD PLAYER & VCD PLAYER.

IF UR INTERSTED ME, SO KINDLY CONTACT ME AS SOON PL……………………….THANKS. KAKU.(its my nick name).my full name KUL……….. 

HAHAHHAHAHAHA….ALL OF MY FRIENDS WHO ARE READING THIS, PLEASE PLEASE LEAVE YOUR VALUABLE COMMENTS AND DO THANK ME FOR MAKING YOU LAUGH HEARTILY

Hahahahhahahaaa….you would be wondering whats wrong with me well, check out this video which clearly shows what happens when the royal mist gets cleared from any relationship ;-) 

And to top it all, one of my friends gave me a fabulous version of royal mist. According to her it’s a “shahi mukka”…I still cant stop my laughter and found it really cute way of looking at it. I know you would be reading n am so glad that you have a unique way of expression and I do like it

Enjoy this video :-)